Questions about university, careers, apprenticeships, gap years and future pathways often arrive all at once. While there is no shortage of information available, many young people are still left wondering:
“What should I do with my life?”
As someone who has spent many years working with people through periods of growth, transition and self-discovery, I have noticed a common theme. Often, the challenge is not a lack of options. It is a lack of self-understanding.
Before deciding what they want to do, many young people have never been given the opportunity to explore who they are.
They may know their school subjects, grades and interests but they have little understanding of their natural strengths, motivations, needs, communication style or the environments in which they are most likely to thrive.
This can lead to uncertainty, self-doubt and decisions based on external expectations rather than genuine alignment.
Through my work as a coach and facilitator, I have seen the power of self-awareness in helping people make more confident decisions. When individuals understand themselves more deeply, they are often better equipped to navigate change, build resilience and make choices that feel authentic to them.
This belief inspired the development of Clarity Beyond School, a program designed to help young people gain insight into who they are before making significant decisions about study, work and their future direction.
The program combines personal reflection, emotional intelligence tools and the Birkman Method assessment to help participants understand their strengths, interests, motivations, stress behaviours and workplace needs.
What often surprises participants is not what they learn about their future, but what they learn about themselves.
Many discover that characteristics they once viewed as weaknesses are simply aspects of their personality that need the right environment to flourish. Others gain confidence by recognising strengths they had previously overlooked.
The goal is not to tell young people what career they should pursue. Rather, it is to provide them with a stronger understanding of themselves so they can make informed decisions with greater confidence and self-awareness.
As a community, we invest considerable time helping young people prepare for life after school. Perhaps one of the greatest gifts we can offer them is the opportunity to understand themselves before they choose their next step.
When young people know who they are, they are often better prepared to decide where they want to go.
Alice Bacon is a life coach and facilitator who helps individuals and teams build self-awareness, resilience and personal growth through emotional intelligence and the Birkman Method. She is the creator of Clarity Beyond School, a program supporting young people as they navigate life beyond the classroom.
Contact Alice if you’d like to learn more.